Motherhood is hard, motherhood in the time of social media is ten times as hard. Before, you’ll only have to put up with your mother and mother-in-law’s opinions on how to raise your children, but now everyone can weigh in on your parenting. And sometimes it seems like everybody does. Debates on how to do motherhood abound: Breastfed versus Bottlefed (and oh, all the baggage that comes with it); organic versus what’s readily available; gender-specific colors (pink for girls and blue for boys) versus gender neutral; co-sleeping versus crib sleeping; and these debates are just during the first few weeks of your baby’s life! Then there are the no gadgets and more books versus let them adapt to technology as early as possible. No photos of babies on social media or flood your friend’s feeds with baby photos? Then there’s the old argument between working or being stay-at-home-moms, who’s a more empowered woman? Should you go out with your friends once in a while, or say so long social life until the kids go to school?